tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819060966829014139.post725474615190689733..comments2024-01-07T16:05:33.403-06:00Comments on Who I Am Without You: Still Crying: Thoughts on spankingSarahhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01007257169361470843noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819060966829014139.post-71848931361153533942020-08-07T22:40:40.350-05:002020-08-07T22:40:40.350-05:00And yes you are right most who operate these abuse...And yes you are right most who operate these abuse are in position of power and well respected and worshiped by societyAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12077219376555995314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819060966829014139.post-34201966210112762482020-08-03T18:57:58.728-05:002020-08-03T18:57:58.728-05:00I also agree on how you say that who say a two yea...I also agree on how you say that who say a two year old is not smart also that how can we say children are evil. And I kniw that if most are evil it is because of their parents injustice. Though I am not speaking of the punishing way to much but it is hard and not right when a chikd is beating inocently when having done nothing wrong but unfairly accused and also when he or she did nit know that the action was wrong. But parents who do not listen when children have somethibg true to say do because they love abusing them and do not want to be in position where will have to admit they are wrong and some do want to have a reason to beat them so they tell them to shot so that the truth the children have to say does not prevent them from exercizing the authoroty they love to do. For it cost nothibg to listen to what they have to say for they may have truth to tell snd may make you see that they were not wrong but accused and the worst when the false acisation is denied they claim it as lie. There are manu unrighteouss authorities out there. I may understand that your parents were acting out of ignorance but many do proudly because they belive that to feel power to ensure themselves that they are the authorities they must opress and abuse their children. This is how they feel good and feel all their pride.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12077219376555995314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819060966829014139.post-47834427429362607242020-08-03T18:53:30.175-05:002020-08-03T18:53:30.175-05:00That is not the most important however the most im...That is not the most important however the most important is hurtibg them when no rules were set when they did not know what they were doing were wrong and worst when they are falsly accused and habe pleaded their inocence. Worst when they are trying to plead their inocence to the false accusation and they are told to shut up and that their real intentions are known. When the evil acusations of strangers are more important than what they have to say. And the worst after all the evil they are the ones called evil.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12077219376555995314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819060966829014139.post-32575364753537941882020-08-03T18:49:10.450-05:002020-08-03T18:49:10.450-05:00I also agree on how you say that who say a two yea...I also agree on how you say that who say a two year old is not smart also that how can we say children are evil. And I kniw that if most are evil it is because of their parents injustice. Though I am not speaking of the punishing way to much but it is hard and not right when a chikd is beating inocently when having done nothing wrong but unfairly accused and also when he or she did nit know that the action was wrong. But parents who do not listen when children have somethibg true to say do because they love abusing them and do not want to be in position where will have to admit they are wrong and some do want to have a reason to beat them so they tell them to shot so that the truth the children have to say does not prevent them from exercizing the authoroty they love to do. For it cost nothibg to listen to what they have to say for they may have truth to tell snd may make you see that they were not wrong but accused and the worst when the false acisation is denied they claim it as lie. There are manu unrighteouss authorities out there. I may understand that your parents were acting out of ignorance but many do proudly because they belive that to feel power to ensure themselves that they are the authorities they must opress and abuse their children. This is how they feel good and feel all their pride.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12077219376555995314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819060966829014139.post-59813923767408424252020-08-03T18:41:14.863-05:002020-08-03T18:41:14.863-05:00Me too it was the same line in my childhood up to ...Me too it was the same line in my childhood up to youth even though in youth I was not beatibg but the false accusations.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12077219376555995314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819060966829014139.post-33125393061096257712015-09-01T19:36:04.929-05:002015-09-01T19:36:04.929-05:00What astounds me is how so many in our society (an...What astounds me is how so many in our society (and especially Christians) can violate a child's body like this - and then, without conscience, find justifications and rationalizations for doing so. If your parents had done the same thing to an adult, they would have been criminally charged and sentenced to jail. If your Dad did the same thing to your Mom, he would have been charged criminally and put in jail. If he had done the same thing to a dog, he would have been charged and disallowed by the court to ever own an animal again. The problem is that there are many child abusers in positions of power who perpetuate the myth that "violating a child's body is in their best interest, as long as we call it "discipline". If it's ok to violate a child's ass and legs like your parents did, why not her vulva, or the bottoms of her feet, or the inside of her thighs? If anyone ever tried to violate those body parts we would have them arrested because we know that deliberately causing hurt and pain like that is torture and child abuse. A child's gluteous muscles are no different. There are many asses who need to be hurt alright - namely - the asses that like to reframe violence against children as being good for them, or in their best interest. Let's not be silent when up against these dog owners and child owners that insist that "just because I own them, I have the right to decide how to hurt them, or not". Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819060966829014139.post-39580661805920719762015-02-01T16:27:01.799-06:002015-02-01T16:27:01.799-06:00Forgiveness is not due these sadists. They were lo...Forgiveness is not due these sadists. They were looking for reasons to beat their child.<br /><br />May God damn every one of them to hell.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819060966829014139.post-52772337043286402322013-09-01T21:46:40.895-05:002013-09-01T21:46:40.895-05:00This is so sad. I don't think that I could be...This is so sad. I don't think that I could be on good terms with my parents if they had done this to me! I might forgive them but it sure would be hard to be around them.<br />I hope you can be very healthy and happy for the remainder of your days on this earth.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819060966829014139.post-53673077625894269452013-06-04T11:07:58.886-05:002013-06-04T11:07:58.886-05:00I come at this from a different angle. I'm an ...I come at this from a different angle. I'm an invalid whose only sexual torn on is having my bottom smacked. <br />I know it sounds daft but I'm an MS sufferer who spent 5 years complaining why me. So much so that I pushed everyone away from me I ended up friendless and lonley until I went too far with my mother one day and she lifted me out of my wheel chair and put me over her knee and gave me my first ever spanking.....I was in my 30's. The poor lady she was ashamed of herself but it did the trick, brought me back endless moaning even left me with an erection as she was about to apolagise I broke down in tears and asked for forgivness for being so "bold". <br />That wads over 15 years ago my mum has gone to meet her maker while I have met a lovely lady. We help each other in all ways sexual and I still get the thrill of being put over her knee though now 50. The lord moves in strange ways Paddy Pnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819060966829014139.post-58392582044306124182013-02-22T10:29:11.397-06:002013-02-22T10:29:11.397-06:00I have no words, they are a jumble in my brain. Bu...I have no words, they are a jumble in my brain. But, while the severity of spankings was a lot lower in my house, I definitely recognize the fear and stubbornness. I lost all respect for my parents, and without respect, the inherent desire to please was gone. After that, it was all about not getting caught.<br />I need a therapist. It sounds like yours really helped!Bekkihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16262445667584986787noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819060966829014139.post-79019426114397906392012-09-28T08:03:35.905-05:002012-09-28T08:03:35.905-05:00omggg i thought i was the only one in the world wh...omggg i thought i was the only one in the world who feels this way, thanks for writing this. how did u turn out so well though, how did u get over it??Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14169418219700545661noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819060966829014139.post-50021043952859702832012-08-13T18:56:24.419-05:002012-08-13T18:56:24.419-05:00Thankyou for writing this. I'm so glad your pa...Thankyou for writing this. I'm so glad your parents are able to own their actions and repent of them. While the punishments I received were never as extreme as those you describe, I can relate all too well to the feelings of humiliation and unfairness, especially after my MIL came along. My mom used to believe me, and I was never a liar by nature. After she and another person arrived in our lives, though, it was always their word against ours and they were the adults - automatically right. I will never tell my children to "respect their elders." I tell them to respect other people - and I certainly expect their elders to treat them with respect as well.Rose ASLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03519675898483081005noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4819060966829014139.post-28365616118592142202012-08-13T13:36:25.450-05:002012-08-13T13:36:25.450-05:00This is written so beautifully, and I really ident...This is written so beautifully, and I really identified with a few sentences in particular: "I was a very sensitive child- there was nothing I wanted more than to please everyone and make everyone happy. When I got spanked, I got stubborn and rebellious- it was a matter of principle- I was being treated unfairly, and I needed to stand up for justice." Thank you for sharing!Latebloomerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18261932798380141520noreply@blogger.com